Why do we get married and do we know its importance?

In our society, wedding preparation means wedding shopping, arranging wedding ceremonies, have we ever felt the need to understand that the children who are getting married should be treated in the light of the Qur'an and Hadith? Tried to explain each other's rights and duties.


Do parents give them time to read the translation and commentary of Surah An-Nisa ', Surah Al-Noor and Surah Al-Baqarah which are related to marriage so that the bride and groom can know the nature of their relationship in the best possible way? How many folks know what the important purpose of marriage is?

When asked what the purpose of marriage is, most people answer that it is the Sunnah is the Prophet or it is necessary for the survival of the generation.

Marriage is a religious framework and if we keep this framework in mind then in fact there are two main purposes of marriage, the first purpose is the fulfillment of the psychological, emotional and mountainous needs of the individual and the fulfillment is the result of the relationship. The fulfillment of man is possible only when man feels real happiness and contentment and this is possible only with the long lasting relationship of marriage. A relationship that is formed without marriage may have temporary happiness but it will lose its contentment and peace and such a relationship does not last long.


The second purpose of marriage is to steer the society on the trail of goodness. In marriage, declaration is a condition under which the responsibility of another person is imposed on a person and when these responsibilities are fulfilled in an efficient manner, the element of goodness and purity grows in the society.


Both parents are responsible for the best training of their children as a result of marriage and peace and tranquility in the society is possible only when the people in the society fulfill their responsibilities in the best possible way. Husband to fulfill this relationship in the best way. And the wife has responsibilities that give the marriage relationship lasting happiness and strength.

* Husband's responsibility

The husband's greatest responsibility is to protect his wife.

Don't hurt your wife's self-esteem and respect her.

He should take care of all the needs of his wife, give her attention, love, praise her and thank her for taking care of all the members of his family.

It is important for the husband to understand which relationship is important and which is the most important.

Husbands need to be balanced in every relationship because problems arise when they cannot balance the relationship.

* Wife's responsibility

Taking care of the husband's personal, psychological and emotional needs as well as protecting his honor and dignity.

The wife should take care after marriage that she is now a daughter, sister as well as wife, daughter-in-law, brother-in-law and mother and the nature of her responsibilities has changed.

Accept the fact that man has been made the head by Allah with joy and love, and respect and honor the husband by accepting his legitimate words.

Cover each other's faults and pray to Allah for correction.

If your caste is more important to your husband and wife than your children, it means that there is love, peace and contentment in your relationship.

According to Ruth Bell:

"A happy married life can be a combination of two people who learn to forgive each other".

Marriage is not just the name of a physical relationship but the name of living with each other's flaws, preferences and cutting the sharp corners of one's personality.